The 5 Biggest Myths About Aggressive Dogs (and What’s Really Going On)
Aggressive Dog
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Aggression is the number-one reason dog owners reach out to me. It’s also one of the most emotionally charged and misunderstood behavior problems. When someone says, “My dog bit me,” or “My dog bit someone,” fear and frustration often take over—and myths quickly fill the gaps where knowledge is missing.
The trouble is, those myths don’t just mislead people; they can make a dog’s situation much worse. Let’s break down the five biggest myths about aggressive dogs—and what’s really going on, with some real-world cases from my work in dog behavior.
Myth #1: Aggressive Dogs Are “Mean” or “Bad”
The truth: aggression isn’t a personality trait—it’s a behavior. It’s how a dog communicates when they feel unsafe, stressed, or trapped.
I once worked with a German Shepherd named Max who was labeled “vicious” because he growled and lunged at visitors. When I met him, it was clear he wasn’t “bad”—he was terrified. His early experiences hadn’t included proper socialization, and visitors felt like a real threat to him. Once his family learned to recognize his signals and we built his confidence through structured behavior exercises, his “meanness” faded. He wasn’t mean—he was scared.
Myth #2: Aggression Comes Out of Nowhere
Most owners tell me, “He just snapped!” But aggression almost never comes out of nowhere. Dogs give warning signs—stiff posture, a hard stare, growling, lip lifting, or even avoiding eye contact. The problem is, humans often don’t recognize those signals until it escalates to a bite.
Bella, a Cocker Spaniel, had a history of biting when people tried to pick her up. To her family, the bites seemed unpredictable. But when we reviewed video recordings, we saw she was freezing, turning her head away, and showing the whites of her eyes long before she bit. Those signals had been missed. Once the family learned to respect those warning signs and change how they approached her, the “sudden” aggression stopped.
Myth #3: Certain Breeds Are Naturally Aggressive
Breed stereotypes are powerful—but misleading. No breed is inherently aggressive. Genetics can play a role in tendencies, sure, but environment, upbringing, and training are far more powerful. I’ve seen Golden Retrievers with serious bite histories, and I’ve encountered Pit Bulls who were as gentle as therapy dogs.
A client once called me about Diesel, a Rottweiler whom neighbors feared. He was actually one of the most social dogs I’ve ever met—but he had leash frustration that caused lunging and barking. Once we addressed that frustration with proper outlets and behavior modification, he became the neighborhood favorite. His breed wasn’t the issue—his training was.
Myth #4: Punishment Stops Aggression
This one’s dangerous. Punishment may silence a growl or stop a snap in the moment, but it doesn’t solve the problem. In fact, it makes things worse because the dog learns their warnings aren’t safe to give. When warning signs are punished away, the dog skips straight to a bite.
I worked with a Labrador named Daisy who had been “corrected” with a shock collar (per a dog trainer’s instructions) whenever she growled at guests. Over time, she stopped growling altogether—but then started biting without warning. Once we removed punishment and focused on changing her emotional response through counterconditioning, desensitization, and safe management, her aggressive outbursts decreased dramatically.
Myth #5: An Aggressive Dog Can’t Be Helped
This is the most heartbreaking myth. Many aggressive dogs end up rehomed or euthanized because owners think there’s no hope. But with the right plan, many dogs can make huge improvements. Will every aggressive dog become a therapy dog? No. But most can live safe, happy lives with proper support and management.
Rocky, a mixed-breed rescue, had bitten multiple family members over food. His owners were at their breaking point. Through careful management (feeding in a safe space) and behavior modification, Rocky learned to relax around food and stopped guarding. The family kept him, and he thrived.
Final Thoughts
Aggression is not a moral failing—it’s a form of communication. Dogs don’t wake up one day and decide to be “bad.” They react to the world as they experience it. If your dog is showing aggression, the first step is understanding the “why” behind it. With compassion, patience, and professional guidance, change is possible.
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